The next time he whines, I’m going to suggest that he take care of the kids by himself for a bit.
To avoid family conflict we agreed to let my in-laws (and others) stay with us, and it was a nightmare.
She values being thin over everything else. That’s her own dysfunction and she has no right putting it onto my children.
My son gets rewarded for how he acts and what he accomplishes. Why isn't my daughter treated the same way?